tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-278781940568281377.post2692208797798598563..comments2022-12-04T07:53:56.594-05:00Comments on The Pearl in the Oyster: GuiltTheCorbinStoryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08179643916523484584noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-278781940568281377.post-23811788708591598502011-06-03T22:42:14.656-04:002011-06-03T22:42:14.656-04:00Hi. You stopped by my blog tonight & commente...Hi. You stopped by my blog tonight & commented on my sweet Ollie that is having her open heart surgery Thursday. Thank you for reaching out to me - I truly appreciate it. I am now in tears over your story. I wanted to share my Mom's blog with you. I thought maybe it would help if that's even possible. I don't believe that your grief will ever fully be gone. I think you will have it forever you will just manage it differently, however there will still be great joy in your life and your future. I only know this because of what my parents have lost & lived through. Their loss has made them into the most amazing parents my sisters and I could ever ask for. <br /><br />Anyway, here is my Mom's blog about my twin brothers - I truly hope in some way it helps you right now. God bless & so much love & prayers for you and yours!<br /><br />http://janiefoxtalks.blogspot.com/2011/04/our-twin-sons.htmlAnniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10422211235427449216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-278781940568281377.post-82775702480849645952011-05-31T22:45:39.751-04:002011-05-31T22:45:39.751-04:00Your feeling and emotions are so real & raw. I...Your feeling and emotions are so real & raw. It is a GREAT thing that you are expressing them. I have not lost my son but he is fighting for his life. I feel guilty when I am not at the hospital for more then a few hours. I feel guilty going out and doing something. Like people are looking at me like how could she leave her son in the hospital. Talk to God he is listening and he loves you! God bless you strong mammamichelle hunternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-278781940568281377.post-30748660688800536642011-05-30T20:58:36.044-04:002011-05-30T20:58:36.044-04:00Oh the grief guilt. Sigh.
I've come to the co...Oh the grief guilt. Sigh.<br /><br />I've come to the conclusion that steps or cycles of grief just don't fit the loss of a child. I find myself cycling in and out of them all. Much love.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06679832505983089584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-278781940568281377.post-73847084423505378092011-05-30T11:37:25.778-04:002011-05-30T11:37:25.778-04:00Ruth, I can't even begin to imagine your pain,...Ruth, I can't even begin to imagine your pain, but as I read your blog (in tears), I just want to encourage you to continue to let yourself feel whatever you feel and express yourself however you must. I can see how feeling guilty is a part of the process as well...just accept each moment in time as that particular moment, different from the ones that came before and will come after. Emotions are temporary, so one moment you can feel joy and the next deep sorrow. That is natural. No cloud stays in the same place, they keep moving across the sky. The sky is God's love for you, and it will never change. God accepts you no matter what you are feeling...after all, He, too, lost a Son. I will continue to pray for you and your family, trusting that God is guiding you gently and lovingly through this sad valley, and He will bring you through to the other side.<br /><br />Love,<br />dianeDiane Dawson Hearnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230481088873517242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-278781940568281377.post-84850868680104560102011-05-27T16:02:15.002-04:002011-05-27T16:02:15.002-04:00Ruth, I continue to pray for you and your family! ...Ruth, I continue to pray for you and your family! When my heart warrior was in the middle of her heart fight, I remember going out to dinner with a friend and laughing hysterically, then instantly I was bathed in crippling guilt. That wash has come over and over through the last year as I find myself "enjoying" life while she still fights to establish hers.<br /><br />My prayers are with you and your family!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com